The Art of Attraction
63% of any encounter of attraction between a man and a woman is the body language, the chemistry so to speak. 27% is the tone of the mind set meaning the vibe you are carrying with you. This means 90% has nothing whatsoever to do with what you have or do not have. The objective is to understand what it is you want from that person. And, then go for it with charm, originality, and sincerity.

It is the 10% of realism that we usually find so hard or difficult to execute. To harness the positive of which we are at times either comes out too assuring or so timid that it lacks impact on the person we are attracted to. So at this point most likely we bring forth our bag of tricks…or the mask that we wear to hide the true self. Now we rely on images, impressions, and false illusions to persuade the very attraction of the person we obviously want.

Understand it is either the insecurity or the enormous ego that prevents the natural course of attraction from taking place. At most times we are reluctant to be who we are around people we do not know. Sometimes we may not be feeling comfortable of the unknown results due to a form of fear. Because of the fear we may assume that we will not be accepted or appreciated for who we are. So we avoid the disappointment we expect by hiding with shyness or behind the mask we choose to wear.

Through the truth has different versions and the illusions of the truth has many shades, but the reality of any individual can only be as ensuring as the mind that wills it. Before we can search for another we must first seek who we are, and learn to embrace our flaws as well as we project our strengths. And from this awareness the positive aura of oneself will shine around you.

So the next time you find yourself attracted to someone let the chemistry break the ice, and allow your mind set to be flowing with the vibration you feel. And above all be yourself because there is one thing in this world that no one can do as well as you…and that is to be you.

k.goss