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Relationships and Drama they seenmto somehow go
hand-in-hand, Don't
they?.
From infancy we were inadvertently introduced to the
"Once Upon A
Time" fairy tale stories, that always ended with the
Prince and his Chosen
bride living 'Happily Ever After', but as we matured
our misconseption
of reality became quite clear. If there was a 'Happy
Ever After', then
why are so many of Us still living out this phesaude,
of heartaches,
deception etc..?.
Did that fiary tale door of 'Hope' seem to screw us
up mentally, that
now Reality seems to be the enemy?, Are we still
waiting
'Unconsciously' for that 'Knight in Shiny Armour' to
rescue Us from our pathetic
state of Being?.
Could it be possible, for a moment, that We reject the
idea of 'Happily
Ever After' with a Lover that has done "Us" (by all
counts) Wrong?
based primarily on the false preachings of a fidelity
based "Once upon
A Times?".
And if Love IS WHAT IT IS, in our generation,
(Drama).. Then how can
One diffrenciate between Substance and Nonsense?.
When do we draw the line ? Or are We Adrenalin
Junkies?.
Do we need to be set out on a cliff every now and
again to keep the
blood or should i rephrase "Love" going? Would a
cliffless relationship
make Us happy? A husband/boyfriend, that does what
he's told calls
when he says, shower us with gifts aon a contenuous
basis, is ALWAYS by
your side, (mayve) even while your in the bath, to
prove he's not trying
to call up his Ex / sweet heart?.....Would that be
the ideal
relationship? from ice-cream to our bad habits, he's
always in agreement?.
Would that not get tiresome after 5 years? would we
then seek out
excitement else where? , Maybe jumping off another
cliff for a quick fix
and back? . I dont know about You, but this "Once
Upon A Time" sherade,
is looking quite dull.
If Mjority of Us women are alike we need some
excitement, so I;ll ask
again, When do we draw the line? when is it Enough?.
Firsts it boils
down to the level of respect betweent partners. I am
not saying its okay
to take back a boyfriend if he cheats on you time nd
time again, If he
beats on you every week, or even if he comes home
late every other
night. What I will state hoever is the obvious, whis
is no One single
human being will be perfect, not even if God himself
handed us tools to
create him in Our own liking. Is a life partner
someone, who wont
challenge you? Or tests your beliefs a little?.
Being able to objectively view life from many angle's
is what We as
women should practive. Aman having a sweethheart is
by no means
appropriate, but the levelof which that affair is
based on is cretical in
identifying the type of Man he IS, and how much
respect he has in refrence to
You.
If he's publicily parading her around town for
everyon to see, now
thats red flag number 1, if he's spending about the
equivalent of times
with her, thats red flag number 2, (that means shes
girlfriend too) and
he does'nt have too much respect for you feelings and
You in general.
If he openly tells you after many trials that 'Yes' he
is with her
thats flag number 3. the reason these flags were
placed in that set order
is to open your eyes to the reality of this
predicament. If a guy
truly respected, Loved and/or wanted to stay with
you, it would be a snowy
day in Belizee when he would expect you to accept
that, or even
truthfully admitts.
What it then boils down to is the based primarily on
the fact taht
Men in general would not likely 'do away' with a sure
thing (which is
you). Its up to You to realize if he truly cares
about you enough to
'WANT' that 'CHANGE'. Would he rather slay a thousad
horses' , than
admitting his wrong doings? does he treat you Good
and it would've been hard
to tell the difference if it was'nt for that minor
slip up of his?.
Life IS WHAT IT IS ladies there's NO perfect Prince
sadly thier just
Men,
and human also, meaning they'll forget your birthday,
your
appointments, they might even be too tired to massage
and/or listen to your
complaints. But does that then mean that your sad
reality of "Happily Ever
After" has to have "THE END"? only to find another
with traits that are
beyond any you've experienced?.
Respect is what many decisions should be based on.
Does he respect you
enough to go out of his way in shielding you from
this pain? or any
other? (and in respect to my mail readers), do you
love her enough to,
(in case of infedelity) use proper precautions, such
as condoms and so
forth?. Like mosts women I'll tell you this
infedelity Is and Never will
be soemthing swept easily under any rug or marley.
But sadly we would
prefer to be kept in the dark IF so. The truth is
painful and many of
times, its easiests to up and leave but if Love is
what keeps you
together then you MUST acknowledge the reality of
"CHANGING". And by
changing 'Men', I mean realizing what is it that
causes you to cheat,
desrespect her etc. Is it peer pressure from
friends? that drives You to
prove your Masculinity? by cheating? or not viewing
her dislikes as
Priority number one?
Unfortunately, (both sex') sometimes fail to see the
'One' who truly
loves them, until its too late. thats no One persons
fault. But what
sets Us apart from the pack is our ability to
recognize the partner's
compatability, thier stature through your eyes. Is
He/She someone you can
for-see a future with? does he/she make your heart
skip a beat whilsts
carrying on a trivial conversation? And if the answer
Is 'YES', can you
then come to the conclusion that a relationship worth
saving and
fighting for, should not be seen only as ; Sex,
Power, Dominance and/or
Desrepect driven?
Do we then start being proactive in Our daily
choices? or will
statistics play a factor, Leaving us 20years from
now ALONE and still
Searching?.
hand-in-hand, Don't
they?.
From infancy we were inadvertently introduced to the
"Once Upon A
Time" fairy tale stories, that always ended with the
Prince and his Chosen
bride living 'Happily Ever After', but as we matured
our misconseption
of reality became quite clear. If there was a 'Happy
Ever After', then
why are so many of Us still living out this phesaude,
of heartaches,
deception etc..?.
Did that fiary tale door of 'Hope' seem to screw us
up mentally, that
now Reality seems to be the enemy?, Are we still
waiting
'Unconsciously' for that 'Knight in Shiny Armour' to
rescue Us from our pathetic
state of Being?.
Could it be possible, for a moment, that We reject the
idea of 'Happily
Ever After' with a Lover that has done "Us" (by all
counts) Wrong?
based primarily on the false preachings of a fidelity
based "Once upon
A Times?".
And if Love IS WHAT IT IS, in our generation,
(Drama).. Then how can
One diffrenciate between Substance and Nonsense?.
When do we draw the line ? Or are We Adrenalin
Junkies?.
Do we need to be set out on a cliff every now and
again to keep the
blood or should i rephrase "Love" going? Would a
cliffless relationship
make Us happy? A husband/boyfriend, that does what
he's told calls
when he says, shower us with gifts aon a contenuous
basis, is ALWAYS by
your side, (mayve) even while your in the bath, to
prove he's not trying
to call up his Ex / sweet heart?.....Would that be
the ideal
relationship? from ice-cream to our bad habits, he's
always in agreement?.
Would that not get tiresome after 5 years? would we
then seek out
excitement else where? , Maybe jumping off another
cliff for a quick fix
and back? . I dont know about You, but this "Once
Upon A Time" sherade,
is looking quite dull.
If Mjority of Us women are alike we need some
excitement, so I;ll ask
again, When do we draw the line? when is it Enough?.
Firsts it boils
down to the level of respect betweent partners. I am
not saying its okay
to take back a boyfriend if he cheats on you time nd
time again, If he
beats on you every week, or even if he comes home
late every other
night. What I will state hoever is the obvious, whis
is no One single
human being will be perfect, not even if God himself
handed us tools to
create him in Our own liking. Is a life partner
someone, who wont
challenge you? Or tests your beliefs a little?.
Being able to objectively view life from many angle's
is what We as
women should practive. Aman having a sweethheart is
by no means
appropriate, but the levelof which that affair is
based on is cretical in
identifying the type of Man he IS, and how much
respect he has in refrence to
You.
If he's publicily parading her around town for
everyon to see, now
thats red flag number 1, if he's spending about the
equivalent of times
with her, thats red flag number 2, (that means shes
girlfriend too) and
he does'nt have too much respect for you feelings and
You in general.
If he openly tells you after many trials that 'Yes' he
is with her
thats flag number 3. the reason these flags were
placed in that set order
is to open your eyes to the reality of this
predicament. If a guy
truly respected, Loved and/or wanted to stay with
you, it would be a snowy
day in Belizee when he would expect you to accept
that, or even
truthfully admitts.
What it then boils down to is the based primarily on
the fact taht
Men in general would not likely 'do away' with a sure
thing (which is
you). Its up to You to realize if he truly cares
about you enough to
'WANT' that 'CHANGE'. Would he rather slay a thousad
horses' , than
admitting his wrong doings? does he treat you Good
and it would've been hard
to tell the difference if it was'nt for that minor
slip up of his?.
Life IS WHAT IT IS ladies there's NO perfect Prince
sadly thier just
Men,
and human also, meaning they'll forget your birthday,
your
appointments, they might even be too tired to massage
and/or listen to your
complaints. But does that then mean that your sad
reality of "Happily Ever
After" has to have "THE END"? only to find another
with traits that are
beyond any you've experienced?.
Respect is what many decisions should be based on.
Does he respect you
enough to go out of his way in shielding you from
this pain? or any
other? (and in respect to my mail readers), do you
love her enough to,
(in case of infedelity) use proper precautions, such
as condoms and so
forth?. Like mosts women I'll tell you this
infedelity Is and Never will
be soemthing swept easily under any rug or marley.
But sadly we would
prefer to be kept in the dark IF so. The truth is
painful and many of
times, its easiests to up and leave but if Love is
what keeps you
together then you MUST acknowledge the reality of
"CHANGING". And by
changing 'Men', I mean realizing what is it that
causes you to cheat,
desrespect her etc. Is it peer pressure from
friends? that drives You to
prove your Masculinity? by cheating? or not viewing
her dislikes as
Priority number one?
Unfortunately, (both sex') sometimes fail to see the
'One' who truly
loves them, until its too late. thats no One persons
fault. But what
sets Us apart from the pack is our ability to
recognize the partner's
compatability, thier stature through your eyes. Is
He/She someone you can
for-see a future with? does he/she make your heart
skip a beat whilsts
carrying on a trivial conversation? And if the answer
Is 'YES', can you
then come to the conclusion that a relationship worth
saving and
fighting for, should not be seen only as ; Sex,
Power, Dominance and/or
Desrepect driven?
Do we then start being proactive in Our daily
choices? or will
statistics play a factor, Leaving us 20years from
now ALONE and still
Searching?.
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